By. Abdul-Nasir Rahman (Yaqoot)
Many times, men fall in love with women who wouldn’t take them seriously; play with their emotions; Use them for their personal gains and leave them when they seem 'useless'; Take them for granted; Disregard them. Isn't this pathetic my readers? An overwhelming gesture no one wishes to ever experience.
Are you chasing a woman who is bedevilled with any of these acts? Have you been in a situation like this before? More so, are you currently facing the migraines of this situation?.
Then you need to stop because these yet to mention 6 things are likely to happen to you if you keep going after such a lady.
FRUSTRATION
You would get frustrated more often as you try to be with a lady who is not meant for you; Anger, disturbance, dejection just to mention a few will be part of you.
YOU COULD PICK UP BAD habits
If a lady has been toying with your emotions, maybe you should take a step back, or you might lose it in the process. A lot of men have resorted to alcohol abuse, drug abuse, smoking and other bad habits when faced with this situation. Most of which were as a result of frustration from such circumstances.
YOU DO MORE THAN YOU SHOULD
Some men go the extra mile to please a woman who keeps toying with their emotions. Well, It’s okay to do what’s necessary to win a woman’s heart, but it should be a woman who sees you to be a worthy person and it shouldn’t be a woman who takes you for granted or a means of satisfying her sole goals.
YOU MAKE YOURSELF LOOK SILLY
Surely, in such a situation the world would deem you foolish. Moreover, lady in question would tag you foolish foolish as well. Her friends and relatives wouldn't be left out in the mockery. Perhaps you may not see or realize it physically, but the only person losing here is you. To be honest with you, you need to be vigilant.
YOU LOSE OPPORTUNITIES
Most at times You are likely to lose the opportunity to be with someone who would truly love you and treat you well. Your judgements and thoughts become clouded as to which is good for you.
You end up killing your happiness; you make yourself sad, and you fail to recognise and appreciate the good things happening in your life.
YOU LOSE YOUR SELF-ESTEEM
Any man who finds himself in such a situation loses his self esteem and in the long run get their confidence shattered. You wouldn’t see the good things in you anymore.
Why kill your manly ego to be with such a woman?
Chasing a woman who would only toy with your emotions is not worth chasing, rather, fight for someone who would wish to be with you and make you feel better. Someone who takes decision with you and adds you in the plan. Be with someone who plans the future with you.
This article puts priority on men, yet women are advised to also take note of this and desist from it since they may be tagged 'wicked' in the long run.
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