Is too much makeup what husbands want?

A sister shared a picture with a text saying.. "Girls are learning more makeup than cooking these days, abeg will your husband eat Concealor Or contour palette..."

In this text I find not only to be funny but have some level of reasonable ideologies embedded in it. Indeed it is not so entirely bad to learn makeups but what has this canker brought to us, as couples?

Some ladies spend more time to be something their husbands don't even appreciate, thereby going after other ladies. As a wife you always need to look like what your husband finds pleasing and not what you think will please him ; ( so long as it doesn't go against your religion and beliefs); lest he finds another pleasing lady who pleases him.....
Many wives make the mistake of doing things to please their husbands yet their husbands don't even appreciate it a bit.

Mrs, ask him what he wants and do it for him in your own stylish ways, than doing what you think will please him. He may not even have a glance at you. He may not want to even stay at home when you are around.

Mr, put aside your ego and try to always tell her what you want and what you find pleasing (so long as it doesn't go against her religion and beliefs). Don't leave her to do what she feels like doing to pleasing you, rather, both of you must do what you feel for each other.

Mr, please you are not a commander over your wife neither is she your slave, so find better and nice ways to address issues. You are not the only one with uncontrollable temper. You can do better than that In shaa Allah

Togetherness makes a marriage happier and stronger.

May Allah guide us and grant us pious and understanding spouses.
ameen

BY. Abdul-Nasir Rahman

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