What You Must Learn as A Lady.

It's been said that ladies are difficult to understand, but I am yet to agree or disagree with that stance. I don't really understand neither can I tell how most ladies think but I've been wondering as to what it will take from a lady to answer someone's (especially a man's) obvious questions for just some few minutes? That is if there is any at all.

It's a different thing when you are busy or in a hurry. Even that you should be able to state that politely and excuse yourself. Or if necessary, give an appropriate time when you will be free to listen to the person. You can never tell the outcome, so you shouldn't be conclusive and judgemental. You need to be  very open minded as possible.

Sad enough, when you try calling a lady or drawing her attention, that becomes the perfect time for most of them to demonstrate how arrogant they are. Putting their upbringing into disrepute.
Sometimes they go to the extent of insulting whosoever wishes to talk to them.
Without even knowing why they are being stopped/called or why the person needed audience with them.

It's OK if a lady wants/wishes to feel pompous a little but it shouldn't take the beauty and dignity of being a lady or a woman from them.
If you can't control your impatience and anger for awhile, why then should we even call you a lady? Because I have grown to understand that the word means care, love, patience and wisdom.
So if you fail to demonstrate these, I don't think you deserve to be classified as a lady or a woman.

What is even heartbreaking is that sometimes when you stop them to have a healthy conversation with them, they end up making it look as if you wanted to rape them.
Very unfortunate right?

This is mere act of stupidity. The question I ask myself sometimes is, "should something emerging happen to her right now, will she be expecting human beings to help her?"

I'm not saying ladies should or must be in the position to stop at every point to answer questions or attend to a guy or anyone's call.
But my appeal is, at least let decency and politeness guide your endeavors.
You aren't the most beautiful person to be created; even if you are, you won't be the last.

A sad case is when a lady is looking forward to marry but has decided to allow arrogance be her role model.
Which reasonable man will buy such a good if not to use and dump later?

I will wish to end it here but with a brief factual story.

Just currently, a young beautiful lady was passing by a store and two guys sitting at the store, were trying to call her nicely, or perhaps what many will describe as cat calls. They showered all kinds of heavenly attributes on her just to get her attention but this lady wouldn't even stop to listen or find out why she was being called.
Don't be deceived, they didn't make it look like a joke, you could read all the seriousness in their call but this lady refused to respond.
When the boys realized she wouldn't come despite their efforts, they rushed to her instead, and they told her one simple thing.

"Sister, you've soiled yourself with blood stain in your skirt."

When she checked, it was true. Perhaps her menstruation came without her realizing or her pad was not doing a good job.
She was not only embarrassed but she couldn't go wherever she was going. These boys then gave her a pullover to cover her shame.

I need not highlight the lessons once again.

The 🕷Thinking Spider has done that perfectly.

Just think through.