Love At First Sight; what you must know.

For years now, many have been misguided by parents and supposed counselors into believing that 'Love at first sight' is a product of lust.
With all sincerity, this ideology is absolutely limited or shallow and hypocritical.

Love is defined as a feeling of intense attraction towards someone. ( It is important to note that it does not have only one definition ) Thus, taking this definition into consideration, can we still be bold enough to say 'Love at first sight' is impossible?
Come to think of it, if we can feel sad or even cry sometimes when we come across something disheartening, why can't we feel intense attraction towards things we admire at first sight? (upon seeing it for the first time)

One thing that is worth taking note of is the fact that, every human being have something he/she hates/admire/love and sometimes aspire to be. In that regard, when he/she comes into contact with any of these, the possibility of expressing or demonstrating a sincere feeling(s) is very high. Therefore, it is never or will never be out of place when one feels or expresses sincere love to someone upon seeing the person for the first time.

The logic is simply the fact that, the person might have fallen within his/her admiration categories. But then, that feeling(s) will not be enough basis to request or enter into a relationship. It can be a good genesis for a solid relationship though. As a young girl or woman if anyone approaches you to propose to you on the basis of 'Love at first sight', don't be in haste to turn the person down with the excuse of 'lust'. You can at least give him the chance to come clean especially if he is someone you are interested in.

Because, sometimes we feel sad for people in certain conditions or situations only to realize that the person was either faking or the person isn't worth our sorrow. Hence, we need to be sure of what we feel and what others feel for us before we make any sound decision.

I am not disputing the possibility of 'lust' when it comes to issues of 'love at first sight' but you can always differentiate between the two; lust is basically driven by sexual desire while love is essentially a feeling of sincere attraction and care. Moreover, it will be inappropriate and highly disrespectful to propose sex to someone upon meeting him/her for the first time. At least you must consider and be mindful of your health. Since the fact remains that you know not the person so well.

'Love at first sight', is not out of place but one must be wise to distinguish between lust and love.