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Tuesday, July 10, 2018

For better for worse

Good people will be remembered as a blessing but the wicked will soon be forgotten That is the Good News Bible Version Go and check Proverbs chapter ten verses seven Our mothers are indeed a blessing and so there is no way they will ever be forgotten From the wrongs we do they teach us a lesson Akosua was there If you doubt ask her She is my cousin They beat us sometimes and if time is not taken ones teeth will go missing but all was just a meaningful correction Just because of us she had to lose her shape So I laugh when scientists tell me we were once an ape I tell you that our mothers are sweeter than grapes She didn’t commit abortion; and that’s how come we didn’t end up in the grave When I stand with my mother It is obvious that I am taller We look alike but she is not my sister She gave birth to me; I’m her daughter She is one of a kind and like no other They carried us in their womb, what a wonder Indeed our mothers are original no counter For better and for worse to love and to cherish She let me stay in her for nine months Because of me her sister is now an aunt She protected me from all creatures great and small including rats, “beela” and ants Every night she sung a lullaby no rants Nine months “akwantuo kuwer” what a stunt For better for worse These are vows expressed in words that couples share before they become newly weds The worse comes and they are looking for a divorce But my mother’s “for better for worse” It stood the test of time It was a mutual feeling without any remorse From the early morning spit to the change in her complexion Her feet got swollen and her heels turned white but still full of determination Her palms looked pale, it wasn’t a curse She also gained some weight, as for that one “mpo dier É›sheegbeyee” no fears Her veins stood out most of the time but she still didn’t mind But it didn’t end there She gave birth to me in Ghana right here She bath and carved my skull, É”mpÉ› December head Every month she took me for post natal care and never did she forget to comb my hair for better and for worse in sickness and in health Do you remember the six childhood killer diseases? They protected us from them Polio and whooping cough Tuberculosis and diphtheria Measles and tetanus When we come to the local ones É›korÉ”, ahokeka, pompÉ” atiridii, tipaeÉ›, ahotutuo, É›twerÉ› kooko,nkwoe, ntobro, and krotwa and please not forgetting the nansoÉ”bÉ›n, nkronsankrosa, santwele, dwibaadwibaa, krodoso, kakawirewire, nsaa ne nantam aprÉ”prÉ” They are for better for worse For richer and for poorer When we got our first A’s and graduated from kindergarten Then we moved to our BECE WAEC has chopped her money but she still allowed us to move on to WASSCE and when we shamefully failed she enrolled us for “remedials” for NOVDEC Please don’t forget our childhood days “ourday” vacation party When we woke up at dawn perfumed rice ho “pampan” accompanied by akoko nsa, when she is done she adds coke. Fanta and fried eggs Eii our mothers have done a lot for us What a powerful “distin” They have also been there with us right from day one From our first foot step to the walk down the isle They, mothers take us, Stubborn, fragile “asuÉ”den” and naïve children to be their sweet burden to train and nurture to be their biologically and sometimes only mutually wedded partners As long as we shall both live From stealing fish in the soup pot to bedwetting In joy and in sorrow From failing our exam to writing NOVDEC three times In sickness and in health From dwibaadwibaa to chicken pox As long as we both shall live As soon as we are born From that day forward For richer and for poorer From chop bar, to her food to kempinski and papaye To love and to cherish Till death do us path For better and for worse! …Inspired by Mrs. Philomena Baidoo… Aba Radical The Photographer of Thoughts Fb: Mercy Aba Blankson Twitter: @aba radical IG: Aba Radical +233249953609 Comment, like and share #AbaIssaRadicalWriter

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